!!!! im glad that my random blogging has some semblance of balance lmao it feels like blogging in a tornado to me tbh (thank you…… than k)
in düsseldorf i met a dwarf
with bad breath and a really good tan
in gelterkinden i remembered how to laugh
and i never ever forgot it again
dub-em replied to your post “i feel more invisible thinking about being aro than i do thikning…”
I totally feel you. It doesn’t help that a lot of ace literature reads like, “Yeah, aces aren’t interested in sex, but they still like going on dates, cuddling, kissing, and so on~” and I’m just like, “Uh…I don’t like any of those things~???????”
for real like thanks for letting me know youre normal and im not
i think fandoms can be very good for representation for reasons like your example, i also think, if certain identities become popular, it can help with normalizing marginalized identities in making them not so foreign for people who are new to the concept or changing points of view. like sometimes it can get problematic but i think thats more of a call for discussion within fandoms/communities than a definite “well that didnt work”