comparing sexuality to something as uncontrollable as your mood isnt really saying its a choice though, because your mood isnt exactly a choice either
besides, saying sexuality is something that never changes and if yours does then youre faking it is really restrictive and prevents people from experimenting with something that should be enjoyable. sexuality is fluid, and just because some peoples moods dont fluctuate as often as others doesnt make it more or less valid than anyone else’s