and yeah i do not feel super comfortable with white people like, Attacking japan for its variously awful and fucked up history and cultural norms but also like
saying “Thats Just How Their Culture Is And You Cant Criticize Them Thats Enforcing A Western Standard That Just Doesnt Apply” is like, lmao, no
granted i definitely come from a very westernized background but also like …. i am korean, ive spent a lot of time there, it is an important part of my identity, also my parents are not super westernized and theyve also spent a lot of time in japan so they know what the cultural oppression breakdown is there. and i promise you that there are people with the authority and the background to make judgments who are having these discussions. find them